Is friendship important? Of course it is, at least for me.
What is friendship den?
Meeting up every other day, working together, contacting each other?
Of course it includes all these, if lucky.
If not, at least it will still be some occasional thinking for each other, involving each other in important decisions, sharing each other special moments...

I admit i've not one of those lucky one who can work and see my special friends everyday. I agree that everyone is busy with their own part of life. But i do feel that this does not tear down the meaning of friendship... Nor does this give one an excuse to not even try to cherish the very little moments of meeting up and such. Of course i won't say i'll definitely appear for all gatherings and meetups, at least for all the special celebrations.

Lol. Why such a random post of friendship, u might be wondering. Oh well... juz got news about a close friend leaving to another place for her bf, away from us. Becos of this, our meetup for fang's celebration is full of mixed feelings except happiness. Worse still, most of us know about it from fang, and not from her in person. The gals are angry, sad and fed up. For me? I'm disappointed.

Was even more disappointed after hearing other things that happened from the gals, ever since she got him. Is their 6 months of relationship not comparable to our 6 years of friendship?

As i was saying, she leaving with him overseas... Will she be ard us for our bdays, graduations, or even weddings??

This make me think of the time when i left to Chengdu for 5 months. I miss my friends terribly, surviving on only emails from each other and updating myself about them from their blogs. I still remember the time i even contact a friend to give me a call when they are attending her bday party, so that i can wish her personally over the phone.

I hope she will miss us too.

Read the other gals' blogs... they are really very angry about this. This made me feel sad about our friendship. In our hearts, we actually still hope she'll change her mind, but we know she would not.

Oh well...

Alright, got to go... Alot needs to be done today for my project and school stuffs. Project meeting tml also. On a sunday. Sad. Anyway got to get used to it, we are having meeting almost 5 days a week. This project is really crazy, taking all my other time left aside from the normal school stuff. My conversation with dear change alot to about the project also. Lol. Can't believe this is only the 2nd week of the semester.

Take care everyone!

All the best to u, shirley.

-XiangNing-